DISTRESS without a stalkerware app. Dead-man check-ins without sharing your location.
Family safety tools shouldn't require surveillance. These three primitives cover 90% of real emergencies.
Run family-hive checkin once a day. That's it. It proves you're OK without sending your GPS, your address, or what you're doing. A cryptographic signal — not a photo, not a location ping.
If something is wrong right now, family-hive distress alerts everyone in your family instantly. Three-second cancel window. Direct to every connected device — no phone call, no message, no waiting.
If someone misses two check-ins, everyone gets an alert automatically. No action required from the person in trouble. The system notices silence on your behalf — because sometimes silence is the emergency.
Missed check-in alert"No app permissions. No location data. No cloud account. Just cryptographic signals between people who chose to trust each other."
Every commercial family safety app is also a surveillance platform. They need your location to sell ads, to build profiles, to share with data brokers. Hive for Families collects nothing. The signals go directly from your Mac to your family's Mac. There is no server in the middle. There is no company that can be subpoenaed for your data, because there is no data.
Each family member runs it on their own Mac. No accounts. No configuration service.
family-hive setup on each Mac. Creates your cryptographic identity in under a second.
Edit the config with each member's IP address. Or run family-hive add-member.
family-hive checkin. One command. Resets the dead-man timer. Notifies your family you're OK.
family-hive distress. Sends immediately to everyone. Three seconds to cancel.
Every other family safety tool is also a surveillance tool. Here's the honest comparison.
| Feature | Hive for Families | Life360 | Apple Find My | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| No location sharing | Yes | No — location is the product | No — shares GPS continuously | No — live location sharing |
| Dead-man timer | Yes — built in | No | No | No |
| Instant DISTRESS signal | Yes — one command | Panic button (needs app open) | No | No — requires typing a message |
| No cloud account | Yes — peer to peer | No — requires account | No — requires Apple ID | No — requires account + phone number |
| No data broker risk | Yes — nothing to sell | No — data sold to brokers | Apple's privacy policy applies | Meta's privacy policy applies |
| Cryptographically signed signals | Yes — Ed25519 | No | Partial (E2EE in transit) | E2EE messages, not signals |
| Works offline / local network | Yes — direct TCP | No — needs internet + servers | No — needs internet | No — needs internet |
| Open to inspection | Yes — source available | No — closed source | No — closed source | No — closed source |
We'd rather tell you the limits now than have you discover them in an emergency.
family-hive status to see them. A background watchdog is coming.Early prototype. Free to run. No account needed. Just unzip and run family-hive setup.
This is an early prototype. It works on Mac today. Mobile is on the roadmap. Built by Vertexpace.